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When ADHD Shows Up in Your Relationship: Understanding the Impact and Finding Connection

ADHD’s impact goes beyond focus and organization—it can significantly influence relational dynamics, often in ways couples don’t immediately recognize. Emotional reactivity, forgetfulness, and difficulty following through on commitments can lead to chronic misunderstandings and feelings of imbalance in the relationship. Over time, these patterns can erode trust, create resentment, and reinforce painful cycles—especially if the root cause isn’t clearly identified.

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ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Mindfulness, Health, Therapy Janine Cheng ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Mindfulness, Health, Therapy Janine Cheng

Why Survivors of Early Childhood Trauma Choose Narcissistic Partners

Early childhood trauma shapes many aspects of our personality development, including how we see ourselves, navigate relationships and select our partners. Many who have experienced early childhood trauma- and have related core abandonment wounds- find themselves repeatedly drawn to emotionally unavailable partners with narcissistic tendencies.

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What is Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is an approach to understanding and healing the mind. Developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz in the 1980s, IFS is built on the idea that the mind is made up of multiple "parts," each with its own unique perspective, emotions, and desires. 

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Adult Children of Immigrants

The experience of being an adult child of immigrants (ACOI) can be profoundly complex, shaped by a blend of cultural, generational, and familial dynamics. While this identity offers unique strengths, it also presents distinct challenges that can significantly impact mental health and emotional well-being.

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Life as the Eldest, Parentified Daughter

The role of the eldest daughter in many families, particularly in immigrant or high-stress households, is often shaped by a set of expectations that can go beyond the typical responsibilities of sibling relationships.

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Therapy, Science Janine Cheng Therapy, Science Janine Cheng

The Fundamentals of Behavioral Change

People often come to therapy with insight into the patterns of their life while also feeling stuck in those same patterns. Pairing insight with behavioral change is key to sustainable progress towards our goals. So let’s talk about the basics of behavioral change!

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Health, Science Janine Cheng Health, Science Janine Cheng

The Science of Sleep Hygiene

Understanding the science behind sleep hygiene, including the role of cortisol levels, light exposure, and chemical releases during the sleep cycle, is crucial for optimizing our sleep habits and improving our health, both physical and mental.

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